L-O-V-E

" its not about who hurt you or broke you down. its about who was always there and made you smile again"

Do you agree with the above statement?

I am pretty sure that i agree with it but then again, the person who was always there and made you smile again can also hurt you and break you down. And when that happens, its gonna be worst than before.

I know because i am in that situation. I would not say i'm hurt and broken down because it took distance and time for me to get over Mr Tall. I still miss him a lot and i still want to see him achieving all the he wants to achieve and my heart still beats really fast when i receive his messages BUT i know we are at the point where we will not move away from-friends.

I was happy, slept well, eat well and kept positive until i met Mr Playful. Instead of putting down their name or initial, i shall state them as the characteristic that i think is best suited for them. So yeah. Mr Playful is almost like Mr Tall. Except, Mr Playful is much more sociable than Mr Tall. Mr Tall can be quite reserved(but he still likes talking about himself). He's reserved in the sense that he doesn't like going out, he prefers to stay at home or do some sports training whereas Mr Playful is always out and about. Mr Tall is more honest about what he feels i.e. if he doesn't want to do something, he won't(in another words, stubborn). I'm not too sure what about Mr Playful but i think Mr Playful often please others so i doubt he is like Mr Tall. However, i reckon Mr Tall is not as gentleman as Mr Playful and not as thoughtful too.

The common characteristic that both of them has? They both don't like to reply messages. Well, they do reply but then they will MIA all of a sudden. Mr Playful is worst than Mr Tall though. Very much worst actually. I think its a guy's thing.

OK...i have swerved quite far from my point. My point is Mr Playful is the one to make me smile the crazy cheeky smile. I used to smile that way whenever i was with Mr Tall or when i think back about the memories we had. But then again, Mr Playful makes me frustrated all the time. He is such a confusing human being and its hard to read him. Almost like Mr Tall but Mr Tall shows it very obvious.

ARGHHH!! Judging from all those mumble jumbles that i've written, i think you can tell that i'm frustrated to the point i am not putting out my points properly. Seriously! Mr Playful, if you don't think anything can work between us, then don't show it otherwise. Whenever i tell myself that things between me and Mr Playful will not work out, then there he is, proving that i'm wrong. COME ON!!!

Too much words in this post..AGAIN. Let me see what cute pictures i can post to make it more cheerful.

ooooh. Choco's picture when he was just 6 months old. My work computer wallpaper =)

the 2 pigs. They do make me smile so i hope they make you smile too =)

OK. I'm gonna end this post already or else there will be more words accompanying it. Toodles Tinglies and have a good weekend.

Absolutely Disgusted

Hello Tinglies

So how many are you single(like me *high 5*)? And how many of you have a partner?

Why am i asking this question? Explanation as follows ;)

So, i have this Facebook friend, a Malaysian Chinese in his thirties and living in a different state as i am. So, recently, he has been posting regarding his newfound partner(a Vietnamese). He just got together with her (i have no idea whether is it official or non-official) but he has been calling her his "wifey". WTF. Can this "wifey" title be used so randomly? Another friend of mine also have been called her partner's wifey when their relationship is so unstable and i'm guessing is just mainly sex based. I'm not judging here but its clearly written in her Facebook.

So back to that Malaysian Chinese. Yesterday, he posted quite a few status regarding their breakup. We are guessing that she found someone better and left him. He seemed so heartbroken, saying stuffs like our love has ended, don't think of him(which i don't think she will) etc etc. And today, he appeared on my Facebook news feed again, with a picture of him with a new Vietnamese girl saying that he's feeling lovely wtf and in the comment, he said she loves him and he loves her. BIG WTF!! Err hello? Break up yesterday and today found new girl and some more say its love?

That absolutely disgust me and hence the title. He found a new partner, good for him! But saying that he loves her after just going through a break up less than 24 hours? That is disgusting. How can this be so easy? How can human heart changes so quickly?

My faith in men is gone. I have no idea what guys are after and what i even more don't understand is how can they not be serious in relationships or towards how they feel. Probably thats the reason i'm single.



A note to you:-

Mind you, I am not desperate for a relationship. In my opinion, if it happens, it happens. If you are interested in me, you gotta make the move. I am not gonna sit here and just carry on hoping that you will ask me out. Whatever it is, the ball is in your court. Like it or not, I still think that guys should still make the first move. Or else, I will just carry on living my life until someone who is brave enough to ask me out comes along. 

Ok. Enough ranting. Heading out with YL to Jojo Pan Mee for lunch and Epicuro for coffee and dessert later. Might post some pictures. Or might not.

Till then, Toodles!